The Real You
The real you is within you and the way you think determines your behaviours.
Some leaders and Coaches sadly attempt to analyse external behaviours without investing sufficient time to understand the inner constructs of your drivers & motivators. That is not really much different than having fun with face-readers you indulge in at picnic-spots!
If you do not experience inner peace & balance, you will only manifest external upheaval, disruption & turmoil. Coaching inputs focussed towards changing external behaviours in isolation is a valueless investment of professional time.