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Happy Times Again - Shut The Window

  • Writer: Adil Malia
    Adil Malia
  • 1 day ago
  • 1 min read

In challenging situations, the choice between withdrawing, fighting endlessly, or patiently waiting for a change is a personal decision influenced by specific circumstances. As a Coach, my suggestion is to disconnect from negativity and toxic influences that contribute to unhappiness. Instead of prolonging suffering, redirect your focus towards new goals to alleviate pain and anxiety.


Letting go of painful experiences does not equate to defeat; it signifies opening up to fresh opportunities for happiness. By releasing resistance, one can pave the way for growth, healing, and positive experiences. I refer to these choices as 'hta' options - paving the path for happy times again. It's about embracing progress and moving forward.


When faced with career dilemmas like a toxic work environment despite other positive aspects, taking action is crucial. If all attempts to address the issue internally have failed, it might be time to consider closing that chapter. Prepare financially, inform your network, update your CV, and dedicate time daily to explore new opportunities. Mentally prepare for interviews, highlight your achievements, and anticipate challenging questions.


Rather than dwelling on the problem, focus on seeking solutions. It's time to close the window on what causes you pain, no matter how appealing the view may be. Taking proactive steps towards change is key to regaining control and finding a more fulfilling path forward.


Remember, progress often requires leaving behind what holds you back. It's time to shut the window on negativity and embrace new beginnings, unless, of course if you are a masochist and you enjoy unnecessary suffering.

 
 
 

1 Comment


parvez mundroina
parvez mundroina
20 hours ago

Your matter of the script, your colourful drawings are just remarkable.

Good going 👍

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