The Winning Choices

We are a net outcome of our multiple desires and the choices we make to fulfil them. 

Self-regulating our energy flow to conflicting goals that we desire to pursue and fulfill is based on two factors ...(a) our clarity & ability to prioritize our desires and (b) our ability to self regulate control through indulgence or constraints which is a part of Emotional Intelligence

The comparative strength of our short-term and long-term desires along with our ability to self-regulate our emotions thru self-constraints makes us a winner or a loser in life.