If you use a wrong scale, your ultimate measure of success in life will always be wrong. The way you define success in life determines your pitching point and the scale by which you will measure your success.
The size of your jeans doesn't define you. The colour and shade of your skin doesn't define you either. The freckles on your face cannot be your definition either. Such expectations do not define you. Such opinions do not matter.
Your success is about your Character , Goodness , Confidence & Contributions.